When Carolyn Savage learned she was pregnant through in vitro fertilization, she and her husband Sean rejoiced. A few weeks later, though, they received devastating news. The clinic had implanted the wrong embryo in her. Rather than carrying their own genetic child, Carolyn was carrying the embryo of another couple.
While some women might have chosen to terminate a pregnancy, the Savages' own moral beliefs precluded that option. So instead, they selflessly went forward with the pregnancy, agreeing to turn the baby over after birth to the child’s genetic parents. The one thing Carolyn Savage requested was a moment for her and Sean to be alone with the baby. She said, "We want a moment to say hello and goodbye."
In an interview on the Today Show, Carolyn's absolute emotional pain comes through. Whatever abstract legal ideas currently exist about the weight given to genetic bonds over gestational bonds, Carolyn had already begun a nine-month relationship with this child. And, to make matters worse, she will not be able to carry another child. If she and her husband want to procreate further, they will have to hire a surrogate mother to carry their remaining embryos.

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